There are women you assume are full of themselves. At first glance, they seem too picky, too guarded, and too challenging, and they clearly have high standards. You think those girls just want to get guys to run after them. But the truth is nowhere near because those women know exactly who and what they want. Those are strong women.
A strong woman doesn’t want to lower her standards for anyone. She is very picky about the people she allows to enter into her life and her heart. However, that doesn’t mean he pretends to be someone who isn’t. The only truth is that this girl has worked hard to become the woman she is today and to appreciate herself just as she is. The truth is that he knows what her value is and that she will not agree to less than she deserves – and you just have to deal with it.
This girl does not want you to pray her for her attention or love. That doesn’t mean she needs expensive gifts or that she expects to become the only person you care about overnight. She does not want to be treated like a queen. What she wants is to be your priority and someone you treat with special care.
A strong woman will never accept to be your second choice. She will never allow you to play mind games with her, and the last thing she will do is waste her time reading your mixed signals. She doesn’t want to be with an immature boy who is not certain what he wants and who expects to lead him through life.
Those women need a teammate and partner in crime. A strong woman needs someone mature and strong enough to keep up with her instead of holding her and trying to lower her – someone who won’t be intimidated by her independence and someone who won’t expect her to change just to please him.
You will need to show her that you are worthy of her and that your intentions are serious and genuine. She will not give up her freedom to someone who wants to lock her in a cage and who tries to control her.
So, the next time such a woman rejects you, it means that you are not the man she imagined. That means you don’t have what it takes to be her Mr. Right.
No, that doesn’t make her proud or pretentious.
Remember that it’s her right to say no to someone she doesn’t see next to her. And there is nothing you can do about it.