Cheating is something you choose to do. No one is forced to cause you so much pain, and yet they do. Cheating is a malicious act, and any person involved in it should be out of your life even if it is someone really close to you.
When cheating happens, there are so many chances to stop it, and yet, that didn’t happen. Thus, the next time you think of giving your man a second chance after such a desperate act has torn your soul, think twice. He didn’t want to think about you while he was doing it, so why the hell should he get a chance to do it again?
They do not change. Not only they won’t take any responsibility for their actions, but also, they will list your mistakes, to show you they had to act like that. It is easier for them to go out and find satisfaction in the arms of another woman, instead of being a man and talking to their girlfriend about any issue that bothers them.
Liars are too good with words, keep that in mind at all times. They are masters of sacrificing themselves and making you a villain.
Be smart about this, and don’t let him drag you into his world of toxic manipulations and games that will do you more harm than good.
People who cheat do not understand the true meaning of love. They don’t know what an unconditional love, in which there is mutual respect and where partners go through all the crap, is.
Their toxic soul around you will only hurt you.
If he has cheated once, he might do it again. You deserve much better than someone who is okay with hurting you deeply. Appreciate yourself enough to say no. You’re too good for him anyway. Show him strength and indulge in mercy. Let him know what he misses.