It seems that there are days when you cannot define the state of your heart and soul. On some days, you think you are entirely over everything that bothers you. Those are days when you feel stronger and more empowered than ever.
Then there are days when you think your heart is broken. There are days when you don’t want to get out of bed because the past haunts you. You can’t help but wonder how it’s even possible.
First of all, you need to understand that moving forward has no deadline.
I know you are probably surrounded by people who are always giving you advice and who expect you to be fully recovered at the time they planned it to happen. Well, what you don’t know is that it takes time, dedication, and a lot of energy to heal.
So please, instead of judging yourself at a time when pain is taking you over, be proud of all the progress you have made.
Instead of being disappointed by the fact that you have not yet fully overcome the pain that is holding you back, be happy about the fact that you came here. It is not bad to feel strong and vulnerable at the same time. Do not let the part of you which is in pain take over the one which is in the process of healing.
Don’t just give up because you’ve had a bad day and ruin all the good ones that await you in the future. It is vital to believe that there is always light at the end of each tunnel. Believe in your own strength, and never think for a moment that you will not succeed.
You just have to remember what your ultimate goal is. One day you will heal completely. One day all the pain will disappear, and it will not affect you. At that moment, you will be proud of yourself for being stronger than ever.